There are some of us who are constantly looking for ways to spice up our sex life.  In no way am I proclaiming to be a sex guru but I do consider myself to be a VERY (…very…verryyy) good lover.  Sex is suppose to be fun, intense, ever-changing, spontaneous, and steamy amongst other things.**Disclaimer:  I do NOT promote promiscuity!  Sex should be shared with someone you have a deep connection with outside of the initial layer.  Plus, why would you want to blow the mind of someone you see as temporary?  In my opinion, when your sex is amazing you become more selective on who you have sex with.  I have written several blogs who can benefit just about anyone regardless of your gender and/or sexual preference.  These blogs range from how to unleash your inner sexiness to ways to enhance your oral sex skills.  Let’s jump into ways to add cayenne pepper to your sex life!